Love is love

2 Cor 12:20-13:11 RSV:  "I fear that when I come again . . . I may have to mourn over many of those who sinned before and have not repented of the impurity, immorality, and licentiousness which they have practiced. . . . I warned those who sinned before and all the others, and I warn them now while absent, as I did when present on my second visit, that if I come again I will not spare them—since you desire proof that Christ is speaking in me. He is not weak in dealing with you, but is powerful in you. For he was crucified in weakness, but lives by the power of God. For we are weak in him, but in dealing with you we shall live with him by the power of God. . . . Mend your ways."