"Whenever possible, I avoid pronouns when directly speaking with or writing about trans-identifying people, in order to avoid unnecessarily alienating someone I am called to love. But I can’t go further than this. Each time I think about making a full linguistic concession, something stops me. I run into a hard boundary, a line my conscience has marked not in sand, but stone. To call a male 'she' is a lie, an inversion of the reality that that word names, a reality I happen to belong to, one that I have not chosen, but that has chosen me. I object to the very concept of preferred pronouns, because pronouns do not name a preference. 'She' names what I am, my female birthright, with all its blessings and burdens. To give away that word would be a kind of betrayal: of myself, my sex, and those bodily threads knit by nature and grace that bind us to Christ, and also to the earth, to all her teeming life."
Abigail Favale, The genesis of gender: a Christian theory (San Francisco: Ignatius Press, 2022), 206, 208.
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